The 老澳门开奖结果, the 老澳门开奖结果 of Nebraska and the law firm of Koenig | Dunne have filed a lawsuit in federal court on behalf of seven couples who seek state recognition of their marriages or who seek the freedom to marry in Nebraska. Read about our clients below, and learn more about the case, Waters v. Heineman, here
Sally & Susan Waters
In a marriage ceremony 16 years ago, Susan and Sally pledged 鈥渢il death do us part鈥� in front of God, their family and their friends. Unfortunately for this couple, a diagnosis of breast cancer and Nebraska鈥檚 marriage ban means a lack of security for them and their children.
Sally, 58, and Susan, 53, met through work 17 years ago. They both have a background in training and development. A year after they started dating, the couple got married at North Side Christian Church in Omaha. The couple wanted to begin a family and adopted a little girl, Ella, in 2001. Because of Nebraska鈥檚 laws, only one of them could be the adoptive parent.
Concerned about their daughter being denied the protections of having two legal parents, Susan and Sally then made the very difficult decision to leave Nebraska and their families behind. They moved to California where Sally could become a joint parent to Ella and where they could jointly adopt a second little girl, Jaden. Susan and Sally registered as domestic partners and became legally married in 2008.
The couple had a family that was legally protected and jobs at UC Davis. The Great Plains called them home, however, and in 2010 they moved back to be closer to their aging parents, siblings, cousins and extended family. In spite of the legal recognition in California, they missed their family and wanted a larger family for their children. Ella is currently 13, Jaden 10, and their family now includes Kayla, now 18, for whom Sally and Susan are legal guardians.
In January 2013, Sally was diagnosed with stage three breast cancer. She had surgery, chemo and radiation. The 鈥渧ery rough鈥� treatments forced her to give up working. In June 2014 the doctors discovered the cancer had returned and spread to her spine. She currently has stage four breast cancer. The family is doing their best to get their affairs in order, knowing that in the eyes of Nebraska, the two women who have spent nearly two decades caring for each other and their children are legal strangers.
Planning for a single-family income, they鈥檝e moved into a smaller home. Susan won鈥檛 be covered by Social Security survivor benefits, though the children will be. The options for Sally鈥檚 retirement plan are also impacted because the couple isn鈥檛 considered married. Susan will have to pay inheritance tax on half of the property they share 鈥� including their family home. Susan and the children could be left without a way to stay in their home should Sally die.
鈥淲e have said publically before God, our family and our friends that we love each other and are committed to one another and our children. At this moment, I want to spend time loving my children and my wife while knowing that should I die, they will be cared for.鈥� -- Sally Waters
Crystal Von Kampen & Carla Morris-Von Kampen
Crystal Von Kampen spent several years of her life in the Navy as a Hospital Corpsman. While deployed in Iraq with the Marine Corp, she says she 鈥渟aw things no one should have to.鈥� Now that she has been honorably discharged and is living with PTSD, she wants her wife, Carla, and their family to have a basic sense of security other military veterans and their families have.
Crystal, 35, and Carla Morris-Von Kampen, 40, have spent most of their lives in the town of Norfolk. They have been together for five years and celebrated their one year marriage anniversary at the beginning of November.
Carla recently decided on a career change. She went from owning her own business to working as a family advocate for a non-profit specializing in families with children that have emotional and mental disabilities. Carla has two adult children from a previous relationship. After meeting Crystal, Carla's son became inspired to join the military and Carla's daughter is a junior majoring in Exercise Science at Wayne State College.
The couple and their children can benefit from medical insurance and use of military base facilities. This is because the federal Veterans Administration recognizes their marriage. However, there are several areas where the VA either relies upon state law or where the state is providing a benefit to a veteran鈥檚 family. A few of these areas are creating incredible difficulties for the family.
Crystal and Carla put in a joint application for a VA home loan that would cover the loan and down payment on the family鈥檚 new home. On the eve of closing, the state VA administration office said the couple is not considered legally married in Nebraska and a loan from the VA was denied. The couple scrambled to secure a down payment from family members, costing them $11,000 that a Veteran who wasn鈥檛 gay or lesbian wouldn鈥檛 have to pay.
Carla's daughter does not get the tuition benefit afforded to other children with a disabled veteran as a parent or step-parent. Through student loans, a Pell grant and a Chapter 35 GI Bill which is a federal program, Carla's daughter has made things work. She has to pay $5,600 a year for tuition that she would not have to pay if her mom鈥檚 marriage was recognized.
鈥淏ecause of what I gave for my country, I am now disabled. My wife and the family we鈥檝e created are facing challenges because Nebraska doesn鈥檛 recognize our marriage. The families of all veterans need to be honored, no matter what state we call home.鈥� -- Crystal
Jessica & Kathleen K盲llstr枚m-Schreckengost
Kathleen K盲llstr枚m-Schreckengost grew up in Omaha and moved away to go to Barnard College where she met Jessica in 2004. The couple started dating soon after meeting and quickly fell in love. In 2010 they were married in Massachusetts.
Their son Sebastian was born in February of this year while the couple was living in New Jersey. Jessica gave birth and both parents鈥� names are on the birth certificate. They hope for another child and are already making arrangements to grow their family 鈥� but they worry that if they had a child in Nebraska, he or she wouldn鈥檛 be able to have two legal parents.
Even with Sebastian, they worry that Nebraska鈥檚 refusal to recognize their marriage sends a message that his family is less deserving of support and respect than other families. Moreover, because of the lack of legal recognition of their marriage, Kathleen and Jessica will have to take on additional expenses to get legal documents such as powers of attorney and health care proxies in order to provide some of the protections that come with marriage, although they know that no legal documents can provide most of the protections of marriage.
Having a child motivated Kathleen and Jessica to move back to Nebraska to be near family and to give their son a Midwestern upbringing. Sadly, the cost of moving to Nebraska to be close to family was to be effectively 鈥渦nmarried鈥� and, thus, considered less of a family in the eyes of the state.
鈥淲e decided to move back to the 鈥楪ood Life鈥� to raise our son. We had to choose between a good quality of life and legal security. Our family should have both the quality of life that comes with Nebraska and the security that comes with legal marriage.鈥� -- Kathleen
Greg Tubach & Bil Roby
One day Greg, 49, and Bil, 57, met while playing a game of pool in Lincoln. 28 years and several arguments over who will shovel the snow later, the couple is still together and living in Lincoln. They have said that when they get married, they will do it in the state they love and have called home for most of their lives.
Greg works from home and has been with his company for almost two decades. Bil works for the State of Nebraska.
Greg was born and raised in Lincoln. Bil moved here as a young boy. After the couple met, they moved to College Station, Texas, while Greg was in graduate school at Texas A&M University, later moved to Indiana for two years, and moved back to Lincoln in 2001 to support the family when Greg鈥檚 dad was dying from cancer.
Greg鈥檚 mom is currently in an assisted living home in Lincoln. She lights up when Bil comes with Greg to help her and visit. Bil also has a nephew and a niece in Lincoln who, according to Bil and Greg, 鈥渁re like our kids.鈥�
Being by each other鈥檚 side as their parents have had medical issues and passed away has been one of the most meaningful parts of their relationship. They don鈥檛 think about their love for and commitment to each other in terms of momentous occasions, but rather spending time with each other by the fire pit at night or helping each other with chores. For over a decade they鈥檝e owned a lake cabin outside of Lincoln where they go over the summers. They enjoy knowing all of the other families that get together at the lake.
They have done their best to plan for each other through wills and powers of attorney documents 鈥� all things they wouldn鈥檛 need if they could get married in Nebraska鈥攂ut know that this only provides them a fraction of the protections that come with marriage.
鈥淚n the evenings when we look over at each other and know we are there for the other that is when we know we are right for each other.鈥� -- Bil and Greg
Marj Plumb & Tracy Weitz
When Marj Plumb, 55, and Tracy Weitz, 49, moved to Omaha this year for a job, they brought with them a half-million dollar a year business, two distinguished careers, and mounds of legal questions.
They have been a couple for 10 years but have known each other for longer. They met almost two decades ago when they were both living in the San Francisco area. In 2008 during a vacation with extended family, they got married. The wedding was a small intimate affair. To them, it was perfect, being in a small rural community with their family and formalizing the love they have shared for years.
After a job offer for Tracy, which they couldn鈥檛 turn down, they moved into a 100 year old house in Dundee with their two big dogs. In the time they鈥檝e been in Nebraska they hired local contractors and businesses to help them renovate their home, a centerpiece in the historic neighborhood. Pleased to now call Nebraska home, the price of moving to Nebraska has been, in effect, to become divorced for the purposes of state law.
They have too many times since moving here worried about what their legal status is in this state and how they would care for each other if something were to happen. Before answering what for most people in Nebraska is a simple question asked on forms at doctors鈥� offices, banks and other places -- What is your marital status?--they don鈥檛 know whether to check the box 鈥渕arried鈥� or 鈥渟ingle鈥� given that they are married but Nebraska considers them single. They hired accountants and attorneys to help them plot out the strange path between being legally married in one state, and through the eyes of the federal government, but not legally married in Nebraska.
鈥淚 was born and raised in the Midwest, with siblings, nieces and nephews and their families now within a day鈥檚 reach. We didn鈥檛 come to Nebraska to pick a fight. What we relied on when we made the decision to move to a state whose law does not recognize our marriage is the belief that deep down Midwesterners believe in fairness and equality and that this would soon change.鈥� 鈥� Marj
Nick Kramer & Jason Cadek
Jason Cadek, 37, and Nick Kramer, 42, both grew up in rural America. Jason is from North Loup, Nebraska, population 300. Nick grew up in Montana. When they met, Nick was a consultant living in NYC who frequently came to Omaha for work. They met in a way people often do in romantic comedy films: Jason was a server at a restaurant Nick frequented while in Omaha for work. After ten years as partners, they were married in October of 2013.
Nick joined Jason in Nebraska because they wanted to make a life together and raise a family. In September of 2011, Jason and Nick were in the delivery room when their daughter Alice was delivered and their family was born. They have been Alice鈥檚 parents, by her side, from the moment she took her first breath. Alice just celebrated her third birthday. However, because Nebraska doesn鈥檛 recognize their marriage, they could not jointly adopt Alice, leaving her with no legal ties to Jason, her 鈥淒addy鈥�, and without the comfort and security that she would have if Nebraska recognized her parents鈥� relationship.
Although the State does not recognize the family relationship between Jason and Alice, their extended family and community does. Shortly after Alice was born, Jason鈥檚 family wanted to host a baby shower for Alice in North Loup. So many people RSVP'ed that they had to move the event to a venue in a neighboring town to accommodate nearly a hundred people who wanted to attended.
Nick is currently a consultant and Jason is a compliance auditor for a bank in Omaha. They own their home and Alice enjoys playing with their 2 cats and 2 dogs. In addition to a supportive family, Jason is fortunate that his job allows him to extend his health insurance benefits to Nick and Alice. However since Nebraska doesn鈥檛 recognize Nick and Alice as his family members, they have to pay taxes on the health insurance benefits. This means $5,650 of health insurance is considered taxable income every year.
Such family and workplace support, however, doesn鈥檛 change the fact that if Nick were unavailable, it might be difficult for Jason to make medical or legal decisions for Alice. Additionally, were Jason to pass away, Alice would receive no survivor benefits. The couple lies awake some nights fearing that Alice would not be able to stay with Jason if something were to happen to Nick.
鈥淚t鈥檚 amazing how having a child changes everything. We want Nebraska to recognize our marriage for Alice and our family. She deserves the same happiness, opportunity, and security that so many other children have.鈥� - Nick
Tom Maddox & Randy Clark
Tom, 57, grew up in Lincoln. He attended the University of Nebraska for both undergraduate and medical school. Tom moved away from Lincoln to do his Family Medicine residency in Kansas City, Missouri, where he met Randy, now 61, who grew up in Missouri. The couple have been together for over 30 years.
The couple lives in La Jolla, California, but keep strong ties to their family in Nebraska, Missouri and other parts of the country. Randy is a CPA who currently works as Chief Financial Officer for a company based in Kansas City. Tom is a practicing Family Physician and is part of the teaching faculty at a residency program in San Diego. In addition to having extended family in Nebraska, the couple also owns commercial property in Nebraska.
They are both active in the Methodist church where they teach Sunday school classes. They also have two shelter dogs. They鈥檝e had the tug and pull of government on their relationship several times. They were first married in 2004 when the city of San Francisco allowed marriages for same sex couples for a short period. That marriage was annulled by the state of California but they were finally able to get married in 2008 in La Jolla, California.
When the couple comes to visit family or checks on their commercial property, they effectively become unmarried.
Unfortunately, America鈥檚 patchwork of marriage laws continues to create difficulties for the couple. While they can file a joint federal tax return, Nebraska has informed them that for 2013 they would need to file as single individuals to report Nebraska sourced income on the properties they jointly own. They are challenging this decision.
鈥淓ssentially, in addition to preparing our joint Federal income tax return, I would need to prepare mock federal income tax returns as single individuals for each of us to satisfy Nebraska. It is an undue burden for married same-sex couples who would need to incur significant additional professional tax preparation expenses. It is demeaning to have Nebraska make us say we 鈥檚ingle'鈥� -- Randy
