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It took a split second for my whole world to come crashing down. 

My teammates on the University of Connecticut鈥檚 women鈥檚 soccer team were jumping and screaming and hugging each other. We had just won a championship game. It was one of the happiest moments of my life 鈥� my first championship win at the collegiate level. Without thinking, I flashed a middle finger in celebration as I embraced teammates on camera. I couldn't have known that split-second, mindless gesture of celebration would cause UConn to suspend me from the NCAA tournament, revoke my scholarship, and completely upend my life as I knew it. All for a stupid mistake.

Right away, UConn issued a press release calling the middle finger 鈥渦nsportsmanlike鈥� behavior. I cried the whole way home through the airport, and apologized to my team. Luckily, my teammates were so supportive. But UConn was not finished punishing me. 

At that point, I knew I was suspended, but I didn鈥檛 really grasp what that meant until I tried to join my teammates in watching the NCAA selection show, which is always a big deal every year. I was essentially barred from seeing my team on campus. I wasn鈥檛 allowed to go to any team functions or even enter the locker room. I wasn鈥檛 allowed to wear any gear or to identify myself as a UConn athlete, either. And then over winter break, I learned that I had lost my full-ride scholarship. Without it, I could no longer afford to attend UConn. I had to transfer to another school with a partial athletic scholarship mid-year. That鈥檚 when I decided to take legal action against UConn. This was about more than a tournament, and even more than a lost scholarship. This was about discrimination on the basis of sex. UConn鈥檚 harsh punishment left me feeling ostracized. They attacked my whole identity as a career athlete. And I don鈥檛 think the same thing would have happened if I were a male athlete. 

Soccer has been my life ever since I first put my foot on a ball. I must have been about 4 years old. At 7, I joined my first team, and my dad coached me for years until I joined a premier team at 12. By that point, I knew I wanted to play soccer in college, and it was my dream to play for UConn before trying to play professionally. It seemed like I was on track to realize my dreams when UConn recruited me during my senior year of high school. But what the school did to me after the championship game made me feel disposable 鈥� like I was just a number on a jersey, the property of the school.

All along, the subtext has been about 鈥渓adylike鈥� behavior 鈥� something I didn鈥檛 know was expected of female athletes. I couldn鈥檛 help but wonder whether I鈥檇 receive the same treatment if I were a man. Maybe the incident would have been swept under the rug, or the coach might have had a word with me on the sidelines, if that. After all, I see male athletes do silly things that could be considered 鈥渦nsportsmanlike conduct鈥� all the time, and nothing ever happens. When men conduct 鈥渦nsportsmanlike鈥� behavior, they鈥檙e seen as passionate about their sport. But when a woman does the same thing, she鈥檚 perceived as angry or emotional, just throwing a fit. It isn鈥檛 fair, and it鈥檚 discrimination.

In June, a district court ruled against me, rejecting First Amendment claims and arguing that UConn could not be liable under anti-sex discrimination protections in Title IX unless I was able to identify specific male players who had received more lenient discipline by the same coach and for the same conduct. 滨鈥檓 appealing the decision because it relies on a standard that鈥檚 impossible to meet. College players on single-sex teams almost never have the same coach. And there is plenty of evidence of male players on other teams engaging in even worse conduct that was not punished as severely, such as a male football player who kicked the ball into the crowd 鈥� potentially injuring people 鈥� and was given a 15-yard penalty, or a male soccer player who was and required only to take remedial conduct classes.

滨鈥檓 fighting not just for myself, but for other athletes that feel like they鈥檝e been wrongly discriminated against, no matter their gender. I want all athletes to know that we鈥檙e not just numbers on jerseys, and we鈥檙e not school property. We should not feel powerless just because we鈥檙e up against a big university or institution. Athletes are people, we have a voice, and we deserve to speak up when we experience discrimination.

Sex discrimination is still persistent and rampant in college and professional sports. Women athletes may find themselves on the wrong end of a stereotype 鈥� just like I was. Athletes who are trans may be barred from participating in sports teams that align with their gender. Discrimination harms us and prevents us from realizing our dreams. All athletes belong in sports, and no school should kick us out based on stereotypes and discrimination.